How to Support a Friend Who’s Struggling With Their Skin
21 August, 2025

by Jenna Curcio
We all know someone — maybe a friend, coworker, or classmate — navigating adult acne or severe acne. Knowing how to be a supportive friend in a situation like this matters, because a strong support system can make progress feel achievable and their mental health a little easier to handle.
First, recognize that acne isn’t the same for everyone, it’s usually deeply personal and individual to their own bodily makeup, hormones, and other factors. Adult acne and severe acne can obviously affect confidence, mood, and how your friend navigates the world. So your role? Offer empathy, not judgment (of course). A few encouraging words or simple check-ins can go a long way toward empowering them on their journey.
Be practical without overstepping
Sometimes support looks like tangible solutions. If, and ONLY IF, it comes up in discussion and they verbally ask you for solutions or products you know that can help, should you go about suggesting anything. It’s super important to be careful and proceed with caution here. Trust me, as someone who personally had severe acne for years, my least favorite thing was unsolicited advice when it came to my skin.
A starter kit like this provides balance: cleanse, exfoliate, and spot treat while maintaining the skin barrier. For targeted flare-ups, the Sulfur Spot Treatment works fast to calm redness and visibly shrink pimples. Or the Blemish Control & Exfoliating Serum can gently exfoliate and smooth skin without irritation.
Normalize the journey
Remember, adult acne and severe acne can persist even when your friend is doing everything “right.” Take cues from them — ask how they want to be supported and follow their lead. Celebrate the wins they choose to celebrate: a breakout-free week, a small routine success, or simply feeling confident enough to show up. Being a support system means honoring their pace and priorities, not imposing what society — or anyone else — thinks their skin “should” look like.
A good rule of thumb? If they’re not mentioning it, neither should you.
Foster confidence and community
Encouraging your friend to share their experience, whether with you or a wider community, can be powerful. Support systems thrive on honesty and relatability — your friend may feel freer to experiment with new routines or embrace acne neutrality [link other post here] when they know they’re not alone. Finding community online can help too: spaces like the r/acne Reddit thread offer a mix of support, tips, and shared experiences that normalize adult and severe acne.
Even the simplest of things like tailoring their social media algorithms by engaging with acne-neutral content creators or following people and brands that won’t negatively impact their journey, can create a feed that actually supports clarity and confidence.
Here’s the takeaway
Ultimately, supporting a friend with adult acne or severe acne isn’t about giving them a “solution.” It’s about offering understanding, creating a safe space, and celebrating progress — even when clear skin isn’t the immediate outcome. With empathy and consistent encouragement, you’re helping them reclaim freedom and confidence on their skin journey. Good for you both <3

Author
Jenna Curcio
Ciao, I’m Jenna :) I’m a writer and brand strategist with 6+ years of experience telling stories in the beauty world — both professionally and personally. After years of dealing with acne, I know how overwhelming and emotional the skincare journey can be. I’m here to make it feel a little less confusing and a lot more human.